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How to Convince Stakeholders to Stop Batching & Blasting Emails

The problem you see all the time

I see this more than anything else in email marketing: leaders demanding that you send it to all, just in case it might be relevant.

The board, the CEO, product or service teams, they all think email is a direct line to everyone (and that somehow equates to direct sales lol). 

So many of them believe the more people you send to, the likelier you are to win. So email gets turned into a volume game, not a value game.

The result leads to a messy mix of ironic marketing emails hitting unhappy people just after they’ve complained. Or in B2B, shooting nurture emails at a prospect already deep in conversation. That disconnect screams, “We don’t read the room.”

Sound familiar?

 

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What we're going to cover

This guide is your roadmap to:

  • Validate that yes, you're doing good work already
  • Show how to frame the problem in terms that stakeholders care about
  • Prove email’s value using money and not opinion
  • Create leverage, not confrontation
  • Equip you to influence without being a dictator

 

What we're going to cover

We’ve all been there. The ask sounds like:

  • “Send it to the whole database.”
  • “Better to miss no one.”
  • “Just do it, I want it out there.”
There’s a perception email is either:

A flailing channel that “doesn’t work,” so no one cares.

Or a magical volume blast medium, so why bother investing in strategy or the backend?

Meanwhile, email systems, strategy, and data are often chaotic, or invisible to leadership.

That’s where you come in.

 

Why talking money is the answer 

If your stakeholders don’t understand email strategy, flip to what they do understand: commercial outcomes.

Email isn’t a vanity fair and it’s not about shiny designs or reactive blasts. It’s about growth, impact, conversions, and revenue.

You need to show:

  • What email is worth when done well
  • What inaction costs when done poorly
  • Where incremental improvements can move commercial levers

Yes, attribution is tricky (and I think it's rubbish to be honest!) But if you look at trends over time, email volume, brand search, pipelines, retention etc, you can show measurable correlation.

No one drops emails with big audiences for no reason.

They do it because leaders demanded it.

So if deliverability is getting worse, or campaigns are causing churn, you can calculate what that means in lost opportunities.


How to build your argument

Breathe and drop your shoulders

Just a reminder to BREATHE, please.

And, take pride in your work - you're doing a great job. 

You’ve audited, segmented, and strategised. You care. Validate yourself first before you fight battles.

Know what leaders & commercial teams want

Every business has targets: subscriptions, donations, conversion rates, renewals.

Show them how email supports those goals consistently over time, not just in one-off blasts.

Do not use an email example on its own - email is a grouped function. 

Educate without overwhelming

Leaders don’t need digital marketing 101. They need to know email:

  • evolves,

  • is strategic,

  • supports multiple functions across the business,

  • and is not a push channel for impulse decisions or hitting quick and pressuring sales targets. 

Give them frameworks: PPPP™ email ecosystem, awareness vs conversion, long-term impact vs short-term sale.

Quantify the cost of inaction

When we talk about the cost of inaction, we’re not saying:

“If you don’t send this email to everyone, you’ll lose £X in revenue.”

We’re saying:

“If we keep sending emails the wrong way, over time our deliverability, visibility, and impact will decline, making the channel weaker and less valuable.”

Here’s how to reframe the conversation in a way stakeholders can understand:

The right way to frame it

“We’re not saying one missed email costs us a sale. We’re saying that bad email practice, repeated over time, means fewer emails land in inboxes, fewer people see us, fewer people engage, and so fewer conversions happen anywhere in the funnel.”

So the cost isn’t just in one lost transaction. It’s:

  • Decreased inbox placement = fewer people even seeing our emails.

  • Engagement rates fall = platforms deprioritise our domain = less eyes on our email = can't use email as an awareness channel = less action and registers by audience 

  • Long-term deliverability drops = hard and costly to recover 

  • Brand and business visibility declines = fewer site and destination visits, fewer searches, fewer thoughts, feelings etc from our audience 

  • And yes, sales, pipeline, donations, etc. start to slide.

A better calculation (use this language)

Instead of “email = sales/leads/conversions/outcomes,” try:

“Right now, email supports X% of our business touchpoints, measured through [insert KPI or metrics]. If our deliverability degrades, we lose visibility. That visibility loss currently supports approx £X in marketing impact. So if we keep degrading, we risk losing a portion of that.”

It's about risk to impact, not guaranteed conversion loss.

Example you can use

“Let’s say 40% of our list is currently disengaged and at risk of spam placement. That means potentially 40% of our visibility is lost if we keep sending the same way. We don’t need to assume they would all buy, but right now, those people contribute to brand awareness, remarketing pools, web traffic, and content performance. That’s the compounding loss of £x" 

Propose a low risk pilot

Offer a small, controlled test:

  • Segment out 5–20% engaged audience

  • Send email flows or personalisation experiments

  • Compare results to the full-blast baseline

If they refuse even this pilot, that tells you about the company culture, and maybe signals it's time to jump ship.

Be brave and bold

Use metaphors: ask executives to open their inboxes and imagine seeing dozens of repetitive business and brand emails every day.

Ask how they feel when that happens and what they do (delete, ignore...).

That emotional anchor helps them feel the pain you’re solving.

 

Hang on a minute... 

Before we go any further, I want to be really clear: this isn’t about saying you should never send emails to disengaged people.

That’s not the point here. In fact, one of the most powerful use cases for email is as an awareness channel, something I talk about in depth in this blog

There is a place for emailing disengaged audiences strategically. But the real issue and the reason you're likely reading this is not the size of your send, it’s the sameness of your send.

It’s the fact that we’re taking one message and blanketing an entire database or list with it, regardless of who they are, what they care about, how they found us, or where they are in their journey.

Let’s think about that for a second.

Everyone on your list came to you with different motivations.

They have different jobs, industries, personal goals, life stages, pain points, and priorities. They’re not all the same.

Some are researching, some are ready to buy, some are loyal customers and some forgot they even signed up.

And when you speak to all of them in exactly the same way, you dilute your message and eventually erode trust.

Marketing studies consistently show that when messaging is relevant, when it hits on a person's needs, desires, concerns, and context, it drives significantly better results. We’re not saying "don’t email them." We’re saying: don’t ignore who they are when you do.

So no, this isn’t a “send less” conversation. It’s a “send smarter” one.

 

Use my framework:

Impact first thinking 

You’re flipping the traditional email mindset from “How many people can we reach?” to “What impact does email create?”

What this means:

  • Email is not just a conversion channel. It's an impact channel that supports multiple goals: visibility, awareness, customer retention, brand recall and pipeline movement.

  • Success isn’t just clicks and opens. It’s also how email influences downstream metrics like direct traffic, revenue enablement, searches, and customer relationships.

  • Your strategy has to define the kind of impact you want - and measure that, not vanity metrics.

The PPPP™ Email Framework & Ecosystem

You're advocating for a structured, system-led, strategic ecosystem, not random sending.

The PPPP™ Email Framework isn’t the classic copywriting “Problem‑Promise‑Prove‑Push” model; it's a structured ecosystem for transforming email programs and functions.

It stands for:

Pillars

These are the three core foundations of effective email marketing:

  1. Systems: Your tech stack, CRM, ESP, CMS, data integrations, fully operational and maintained.

  2. Strategy: A strategic approach that aligns email with business goals, customer journeys, segmentation, and flows.

  3. Data: Accurate, clean, and dynamic data that actually informs personalisation, timing, and audience understanding.

A healthy email ecosystem starts at the ground level: tech and people infrastructure.

Pyramid (Hierarchy of Needs)

Inspired by Maslow, this shows what must be in place before execution happens:

  • Deliverability & sender reputation at the base

  • Behavioural segmentation above that

  • Core workflows and journeys in the middle

  • Content, subject lines, and design at the top

You don't skip levels to get straight to design. If deliverability is weak or data is bad, everything above collapses.

Principles (Guiding Rules)

Your proprietary "best practice" playbook—modern, strategic, and flexible:

  • Think of email as an ecosystem and function, not a channel

  • Send strategically, not sporadically

  • Protect deliverability over chasing vanity clicks

  • Align email with sales, service, and product messaging

  • Measure impact, not just opens and clicks

These principles replace outdated, one-size-fits-all "best practices" with guidance that fits real business ecosystems.

Plan

This is the “roadmap to action”:

Email as a relationship function

Instead of treating email like a quick “sales lever,” treat it as a relationship function:

  • That means nurturing over time - expect slower results 

  • Being useful and human, not pushy and robotic

  • Focusing on relevance over reach

  • Treating disengaged contacts differently, not ignoring them, but positioning messages in a way that resonates with who they are and where they are.

Quantify the Cost of Inaction (CoI)

Okay, marketers, this is where your commercial hat needs to come on. If you want to get buy-in from the business, you’ve got to start talking in their language. That means money, impact, and risk.

Here’s what you need to do: help your stakeholders see the cost of doing nothing. Not in fluffy “we could do better” terms, but in hard, credible, quantifiable impact.

Talk money - show either cost of inaction or the amount of opportunity - use related figures, factsand data to back up your claims. 

 

This is about showing stakeholders: this isn’t hypothetical. This is real. And we’re bleeding opportunity by sticking with the status quo.

Now you’ve set the stage to ask: “Can we just test a smarter way?”

Test, pilot, prove

This is your power move. You don’t need to ask for permission to overhaul the entire database strategy overnight, you just need a slice of the list, a solid hypothesis, and a smart experiment.

Pick a segment. Clean it. Personalise the message. Reframe the flow. Then measure it over at least 6-12 months. 

When you can walk into a stakeholder conversation and say,

“We tested this with just 8% of our list, and we tripled engagement, plus replies were overwhelmingly positive and assisted revenue/conversions/results have grown by [x]…”

They’ll listen.

It’s low risk, high reward, and it builds you a bulletproof case to scale what works. Not to mention, it shows you as the strategic thinker who didn’t just push back, you proved the point with data.

 

Because at higher leadership levels, money is the universal language

You can’t argue strategy if you don’t show the commercial cost of behaviour. And often, marketers are the only ones who can speak that language effectively.

If the strategy fails, fine. If it succeeds, you’ve unlocked:

  • Better deliverability

  • Smarter segmentation

  • Higher retention

  • Long-term growth

Plus, internal respect.

 

Final thought for you 

This is not a one-email fix. It’s a six-to-12-month journey. It's about slowly proving that email doesn’t need to be a scattergun, it can be precision. It doesn’t mean a full overhaul overnight, but it does mean starting a structured, data-informed conversation.

If you’re ready to wield the financial argument, quantify your email risks, and influence smarter sends, start now.

Need help drafting the audit, model or presentation to leadership? Book a quick call with me to explore working together. I’ve turned this approach into £450K in new opportunities for one business.



Your next steps:

Book a free consultation here to get your deliverability or email ecosystem audit
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